You know something has to shift. You just can't see it from inside.
I'm Monique, a certified systemic coach. I work with people in the middle of change, helping them see what's really driving them and choose what happens next.
Maybe it feels a bit like this
- You're facing a career move or a new role, and you're not sure which way is yours.
- The same pattern keeps getting in the way, at work or in your relationships.
- One part of you takes over in certain moments, and you'd like to respond differently.
- Your life needs reshaping, but you can't yet name what the new shape is.
- You know something has to change, and you've run out of ways to think it through on your own.
None of that means something's wrong with you. It usually means different parts of you want different things. That's where we start.
How I work
My core method is systemic coaching with parts work, sometimes called the inner team. We all have different inner parts with their own voice and agenda. Once you can see them, you get to choose.
Map your inner team
We name the parts that drive how you act: the cautious one, the driven one, the one that wants to run away. All of them are welcome.
Notice who's in charge
You learn to spot which part is active in a given situation, in the moment rather than afterwards.
Practise a new response
From there, we practise choosing differently, in the real situations you bring to each session.
The work is present-day and practical. It's coaching, not therapy, and I keep that line clear. My practice is also informed by yoga and yogic philosophy, which I draw on where it helps.
Coaching with me
1:1 coaching, over three months
For people going through change who want a steady space to think it through, and a partner who'll gently challenge them along the way.
Packages from €1,500 per month
Ask about coaching- Six sessions of 90 minutes, every other week
- In person in Berlin, or online
- We start by agreeing a goal for our time together
- We check in on it as we go, and look back together at the end
About me
I'm Monique Pattison, a systemic coach based in Berlin. I trained at Artop in Berlin from 2023, coached practice clients through 2025 and 2026, and certified in 2026.
I work with people at turning points, when they know something has to shift but can't see it clearly from inside. My job is to help you see it, and then to help you act on it.
- Systemic Coach certificationArtop, Berlin · 2026
- 200-hour yoga teacher training2025
You've read this far. That means something.
Write to me with a few lines about what's going on, and we'll find a time to talk about whether working together makes sense.
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